Things have begun to quiet down after a crazy week, and I realized something this morning…I am still madly in love with my wife! It has been almost 10 years, and a wild 10 years it has been! 4 states, 4 ministries, 5 children, going back to school, 6 weeks in a motorhome, ups and downs of ministry, countless episodes of vomitting children, all this and she still loves me too!
God knew exactly what he was doing when he gave me this incredible woman, and there is no doubt that I married up! She is beautiful, an incredible mother, a loving wife, a great ministry partner, she can cook like there is no tomorrow, she puts up with her in-laws! Wow!
You know what though, all that could change tomorrow, and I would still love her! She could have a horrible disfiguring accident that leaves her looking like the Phantom of the Opera! She could be left like a potato and unable to be the incredible mother or the loving wife! She could stop loving being a ministry partner because she has seen too many of the bride’s warts! She could forget how to cook! I would still love her!
Why? Because I chose to love her! That will never change! I like to tell her that I have to love our children because we conceived them, but I chose to love my wife and I always will!
Our relationship with God is the same! God has chosen to love us! Ephesians 1:5 says, “he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will—” He adopted us as his children! Adoption is a choice…Jesus Christ is his true son, but we have been brought into that incredible family at God’s will! Verse 11 goes on to say we were chosen!
God chose you! You may not be anything to look at, you might not be able to cook, and you certainly aren’t always pleasant to be around, but God chose you! He chose you because he wants to look good through you! God chose us, adopted us, and marked us for one reason…for the praise of His glorious grace!
God chose you, and is still in love with you!